Friday, 30 August 2013

advice

 

Years ago i had trouble for excepting myself, I'd used to thought that i was nothing in my family until i met my friends ( http://wretchedanddevine.blogspot.com/2013/08/advice-friends.html ). But know I've have appreciate myself cause one of my friends say everybody is beautiful and nobody is perfect. You see others are perfect outside but by the inside. We will never know what are they keeping from us. So just like appreciate yourself. Just be yourself no one knows that there is a someone you likes you for you. If you change you'll have to always lie, would you? Maybe your teenage life is not that fun but when you have grown up you'll see the beauty in you that no one else have so, love yourself. Be grateful and the person who loves would be so thankful.

Life is full ups and downs and live like that everyday. Everybody in my family is like when your grown up  you won't take care of your mother you always pretend to study because you don't want to let you mother and make you mother love you more. Well i push that all away and i say to myself that i will prove to everybody that i can do it because you gave me all the confident i need and you are supporting to not be a non useful person and i thank you for your moral support (not so much)

Tuesday, 27 August 2013

advice

advice

 

Being patience is a very good thing in life cause being patience can bring many happy things in life. I've been patience in my life and many good things had happen, i've been accused for so many times but i didn't care i know that god knows i didn't do it. You also have to be patient in your teenage life cause is a process of us growing up. I know because i am also a teenage and i understand that sometimes we all want to kill ourself but its not worth it. If your parents thinks your stupid or you can't anything just be patient and show them what you can and at the end they will be so thankful and you'll be so proud of yourself and no one could ever tell. So just be patience and good things will happen i promise you, but if it doesn't come along maybe its not the time yet maybe when your grown up or something and im sure of it. So please try your best, if you don't try it will never happen so be patience okay. :) be happy

Sunday, 25 August 2013

advice

“If a man will begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts, he shall end in certainties.” 
― Francis BaconThe Advancement Of Learning

“Here's some advice. Stay alive.” 
― Suzanne CollinsThe Hunger Games

“Never miss a good chance to shut up.” 
― Will Rogers

“We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.” 
― Randy PauschThe Last Lecture

“Accept what life offers you and try to drink from every cup. All wines should be tasted; some should only be sipped, but with others, drink the whole bottle.” 
― Paulo CoelhoBrida

“Don't leave a piece of jewelry at his house so you can go back and get it later; he may be with his real girlfriend.” 
― Amy SedarisI Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence

“A mathematical formula for happiness:Reality divided by Expectations.There were two ways to be happy:improve your reality or lower your expectations.” 
― Jodi PicoultNineteen Minutes

“The only good thing to do with good advice is pass it on; it is never of any use to oneself.” 
― Oscar WildeAn Ideal Husband

“Never ruin an apology with an excuse.” 
― Benjamin Franklin


advice for teens



The best careers advice to give to the young is 'Find out what you like doing best and get someone to pay you for doing it.

My advice to you concerning applause is this: enjoy it but never quite believe it.

Old men are fond of giving advice to console themselves for being no longer in a position to give bad examples

Saturday, 24 August 2013

Advice By Others

“you can, you should, and if you’re brave enough to start, you will.” 
― Stephen KingOn Writing

“We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.” 
― Abraham Lincoln

“Get going. Move forward. Aim High. Plan a takeoff. Don't just sit on the runway and hope someone will come along and push the airplane. It simply won't happen. Change your attitude and gain some altitude. Believe me, you'll love it up here.” 
― Donald Trump

“Minds are like flowers, they only open when the time is right.” 
― Stephen Richards

“You don't have to be good at something to be liked.” 
― Stephen Richards

“No matter whether you believe in luck or chance, the final decision is from yourself.” 
― Stephen Richards

“Even though your thinking might not be right for others, just so long as it's right for you then that's all what matters.” 
― Stephen Richards

“Always think extra hard before crossing over to a bad side, if you were weak enough to cross over, you may not be strong enough to cross back!” 
― Victoria Addino

“Hard work is what you do to make ends meet, easy work is getting others to do the hard work for you.” 
― Stephen Richards

“The first place where self-esteem begins its journey is within us.” 
― Stephen RichardsBoost Your Self Esteem

Beautiful No Matter What Size

So hey everyone! It's me Kamilah from http://wretchedanddevine.blogspot.com/ .
Since my friend is unable to update her blog, she asked me to do it for today.
I am copy pasting something from my blog to share with all of you and I hope you understand something for it

First and far most, All credits go out to the artist's name above on the picture.

I don't remember if I have posted this before but I would like to tell you that no matter what your size is, you are still beautiful in every way.
If someone says you ain't  beautiful or pretty because of your size, well they can obviously eff themselves because God didn't make anyone perfect but God made everyone perfect in their own imperfect way. 
Please don't think that I don't know what you are feeling because I go through it too.
I am not the skinniest or flawless young lady, but I often compare myself to others who are prettier and skinnier than me.
But I know, we all know
We shouldn't do that.
Always believe that you are beautiful enough no matter if you are a size below or a size above, God  makes different shaped bodies for all women and damn girl you got to flaunt it and be grateful for it.
Even if a few people don't see you as beautiful, a few others will.
Trust me,
everything will be okay.
Whether you are skinny, adorable, fluffy and all cute and fuzzy, you are still beautiful.
You only need to remind yourself everyday that you are perfect in an imperfect way,
just don't let it get to your head though.  ^_^
I know it's hard for a lot of people these days with the obsession of wanting to lose weight or even gain weight. You don't need any of that. 
You don't need to starve your lovely body 
&
you don't need to put excess things in your body.
Trust me on this, okay?
&
I'm here, to listen if you need me.
I can't promise but I will try my best.

Monday, 12 August 2013

advice

People advising others often forget that the same advice applies to their life as well.

Giving you advice doesn’t mean that I’m smarter than you, I’ve just been through a lot of sh*t.

Be sincere; be brief; be seated.
- Franklin D. Roosevelt

Be careful with your words, they can only be forgiven not forgotten

We are born as innocents. We are polluted by advice.
- Henry David Thoreau

Look famous, be legendary, appear complex, act easy, radiate presence, travel light, seem a dream, prove real.

Be like water and adapt to any situation

Advice is good, but then the wise don’t need it and the fools won’t take it.

No punctuation at the end, is like walking out of your house without any shoes

Stay away from public bathrooms!

Those who doesn’t heed good advice are bound to doom.

Have you ever thought about this? If someone close to you is trying hard to pass a good bit of advice and you take no notice. What does it make you?

Listen to your heart. Even when it says you need advice.

advice

advice

Monday, 5 August 2013

qoutes

“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” 

“You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like there's nobody listening,
And live like it's heaven on earth.” 

“You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” 

“A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.”

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.” 

“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.” 

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.” 

“The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.” 

life


In the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away.


When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.


"Eleven Hints for Life"

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.